Perspective

To: N2
From: N

Could you at least acknowledge either way that you’re at least getting these emails, that you’re alive, etc? Tell me to shut up and go away if that’s what you want but don’t leave me just sitting here wondering what’s going on.

Talk to me.

To: N
From: N2

Talk to you? About what? Your very unfair and kind of insulting temper tantrum on me yesterday?

We’re still friends, don’t worry.. but I need to cool down still…so give me some time.

To: N2
From: N

I’ll give you time, yes, but please take into account this perspective (as [SQ] would point out), your email to me from my perspective was very unfair and insulting and indicatated that you not only didn’t listen to anything I said the day before but you assumed I lied to you and you didn’t give me the benefit of the doubt….after you appeared to have stopped talking to me sometime the day before when I way trying to work out what was wrong.

[N2], I’ve been crying for 2 days and not about the game, but because I feel like you turned your back on me and shut me out and you’re my best friend and I can’t figure out what went wrong, which is why I think we need to talk on the phone. Maybe tonight rather than let this fester through obvious perspectives of emails.

To: N
From: N2

Did you not read [GM bitch]’s original email to you? She specifically said that I thought you should keep Willow and that it was her making the decision to remove Willow from you.

I did listen to everything you said and I took it all into account. You have not lost me as a friend, not one bit. I’m not even mad; just frustrated and irritated mostly that you found blame with everything but yourself and that you exaggerated on certain things to make it seem that you were that much more innocent and everyone else was that much worse. That happens to be a pet peeve of mine and I don’t take it from anyone, including my friends.

Yesterday, yes. I’ll admit I assumed you lied. It was a very, very -pat- coincidence that you started posting so much after [GM bitch] sent that email (which was cc’d to [SQ] and I and we both received it immediately after she sent it); the second thing was my first email to you yesterday morning, asking if you’d gotten it… and I got back one, single solitary word. “No.” Which is out of character for you. The third was that you found it… after I sent you an email about it…. you had to admit that when it’s laid out like that, it sounds quite planned.

Talking on the phone is fine and tonight is fine.. if I don’t hit the movies. [My son]’s at [my friend]’s.

To: N2
From: N

First, I don’t lie to my friends and I don’t appreciate being called a liar by my friends who should know better. That is a pet peeve of mine.

Second, I had appologized the day before about the conversation on Tuesday night and had taken responsibility. However, it appears that it doesn’t matter how many times I appologize.

On Wednesday morning I specifically told you that I would be either posting for all of my characters before bed or before work from then on. I have been trying to explain to you since last week about setting up lists and schedules and how important that is to my recovery and it’s been increasingly frustrating to me that you don’t seem to be either interested
or don’t seem to remember.
I replied “no” because I was mad that I had tried to talk to you about the fact that you were brushing me off the day before and you weren’t responding AND I had not in fact gotten anything from [GM bitch].

I have a separate beef with [GM bitch] now which I now understand is a separate thing and quite frankly I haven’t decided what to do about it. However, after receiving her email which I didn’t get until after I got to work yesterday and which I still feel was unfairly handled, I was quite upset and read your email that accused me of lying and it sent me over the edge.

Anyway, I’ll be home all night. I might even leave early.

To: GM bitch
CC: N2, SQ
From: N

In the future, I would prefer if you have an issue you would like to dissuss with me about a game, do not ask [N2] or [SQ] to approach me on the subject; I would prefer to discuss it with you personally if possible. I just feel that it adds complexities that need not be added to such situations.

I’ve requested similar before I know, but I would like to reiterrate this now since it appears to have become a problem again.

Thank you.

tags: friendship, dysfunctional drama, PBeM

One comment

1. on April 17, 2006 at 1:20 am

   Omni said:

   I hope this all works out ok!! xo

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